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Now let's dive into today's episode with Mr.
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Travis Travis.
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You are in the world of deal making every day, but you do it with and through people.
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Kind of give us an idea of who you are and what you do.
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Awesome.
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Thanks for having me, Josh.
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Happy to be here.
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I am the founder of Pender and How and we are a human capital advisory firm.
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So majority of our days are spent finding executive leaders for investor-backed businesses, whether that be on the private equity side, family office side, or venture capital side.
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We are the type of company that investors or operators call when they need a new director, vice president, C-suite leader, or are even structuring their board of directors.
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So that's where we play.
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Lower to mid-market is also kind of our bread and butter in terms of company sizes that we work with.
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We're industry and functional agnostics.
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So we've built the firm with a philosophy that we've attracted partners with very specialized industry experience.
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And that's who leads our searches depending on what industry or investor kind of category is calling us.
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But that that is what our firm does.
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Yeah.
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We're going to get into the specifics of what you do and for who.
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But I'm always I always love to hear the the origin story because you've had some great milestones in terms of growth, in terms of your own acquisitions and mergers and all these like exciting things that I don't know how much you're you're able to talk about, but kind of give us your origin story and what led you up to today.
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Yeah, definitely.
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We are um originally a spin-off uh story is how the business was created and kind of where it is today.
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So um I I built the uh the company with my co-founder back in 2019.
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We were a part of a larger national firm at the time.
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Um, and uh and we really wanted to focus on the executive uh kind of C-suite leadership realm within terms of how we do our recruitment expertise in a boutique manner.
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And um, you know, we had a couple of ideas of how that could be a little bit different than what the market has to offer.
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Um, so I had approached leadership at the time of that firm that we were with to kind of create a subsector category within that business to see if we can carve something out.
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Um and uh long and behold, that is very much what we did.
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And uh 2020 was kind of the year that things were properly rolled out, and you know, it was an eventful year as we all remember, kind of Q1, Q2 of what happened then.
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Um in some ways, it was kind of a blessing in disguise because it was actually a great year to build, and um that there was a lot of great companies that came out of that as there typically are in in kind of down markets or um you know unusual markets.
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And in 2022, we spun the business off to be uh completely alone and separate from the organization that it was originally built in.
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Um at the time in 2022, we were probably four or five people, and that kind of stayed for the you know the year after, I would say.
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Um and uh today we're we're 20 people across the country and very much on a growth journey to continue kind of doubling down on that growth of what we've accomplished over the last kind of call of 12 to 18 months.
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Um in 2022, we were picked up by the world's largest executive search alliance.
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So we exclusively represent them in Canada and the US.
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Um and there's 42 uh booty firms in 42 different countries now around the world that kind of make up that global umbrella.
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And then I sit on the board of directors for that global umbrella.
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So um that's kind of you know the story of how it got started and where we are.
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Um the the firm name Pender and Howe comes from a very popular intersection in in Vancouver, Canada, actually.
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And um when we were creating the the firm name inside of the other organization, we were trying to find a way to connect the two businesses without it being obvious.
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Um and way back in 1983, that firm was actually founded on the corner of Pender and Howe Street in Vancouver.
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So that's the way that we kind of tied the two stories together.
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And uh everyone always asks me who whose last name is Pender or how, because it doesn't exist on the company website, but uh that that's where the name came from.
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Man, I love it.
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Yeah, I was wondering the same thing.
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You stole one of my questions.
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Is is how did because it sounds like you know, it sounds very professional, it sounds very, you know, like a group that would work with a uh a PE firm.
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And it's you know, I was thinking it sounds like either a law firm or some type of fund.
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But uh yeah, brilliant.
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It's two streets.
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Um that's it.
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Yeah, no, it's great.
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Um so how did you choose this niche with you know PE backed companies, investment group, you know, whether it's a VC, PE group, family office?
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How did you how did you kind of land into serving that community?
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Yeah, it's a good question.
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I mean, it's not exclusively all that we we do, Josh.
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In fact, my first CEO search was for uh a publicly traded uh company.
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So um, you know, you know, I you you kind of fall into different niches, I mean, through experience and through through networks.
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Um and you know, very much so uh one of my first deals was with a family office actually from Asia that was looking for a CEO in the US and successfully you know accomplished that project.
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And that that kind of led to the next introduction with another um you know mid-market private equity firm.
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And and um, you know, one thing kind of leads to another.
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But what what really is kind of the common denominator there is investor-backed businesses have a really um big stress on talent, right?
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There are a lot of deals that are contingent upon whether or not the investor can find a new CEO or an operator to run that business, right?
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So the stakes are very high.
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And quite frankly, the adrenaline as a search professional when you're tasked to find that um is a whole different feeling of uh stress and accomplishment when you're able to place a successful operator because it's not just a placement, right?
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You're actually bringing together an entire deal that was contingent upon you finding that individual.
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So it's just a very different line of work comparable to uh you know recruiting for um you know a larger conglomerate that may be publicly traded or um you know is privately held.
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The stakes are just a lot larger and it becomes a little bit of an addiction, quite frankly.
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Oh, an addiction.
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I love talking about those.
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Uh how how when you when you talk about why did why did you describe it as that?
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And then talk us through why you said that.
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Well, well, the stakes are higher, right?
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And I think some people enjoy that, and some people definitely would not, right?
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And when you have um an a search, you know, hypothetically speaking, uh a CEO search, right?
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Where you have a private equity deal that's going to happen, but only if we can find a CEO that we can bet on.
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Otherwise, you know, we're pulling our uh we're pulling our interest in the deal.
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Um, you know, now you have the stress of you got to go find a CEO.
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So you have the talent side of bringing that all together, but then you have an entire fund slash deal team that is relying on you to bring that together, right?
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So you've got pressure from kind of almost two to three different um lines, which the if you enjoy stress and you enjoy you know high stake environments for for making deals, which I do, um, it's a just a completely different ballgame.
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And then you compare it to a search that's a little bit more cookie-cutter, um, you kind of almost get bored in a way, right?
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So um there's different uh um you know, different strokes for different folks, and and my my preference is to be kind of in that in a high stake environment, and and that's very much what that is.
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What?
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Like talk to us about your upbringing or some of the things that led up to because I I too gravitate towards these kind of like adrenaline larger deals.
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I've been in venture capital private equity, I was a firefighter medic, I wrestled alligators, like I I a lot of the things that I've done have been a little bit more on the exciting side of it.
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And like if I go into a large organization and I have to clock in, clock out, follow a system and process, I might not make it there very long.
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So kind of walk me through what what led you to discover this about yourself.
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Yeah, I I've also never clocked in and clocked yet.
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I don't think I'd work.
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Um I don't think they'd want to keep me, quite honestly.
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Um so uh for for me, you know, Josh, I I think the the DNA and the roots for me just goes back to my my upbringing, which is sports, right?
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And um sports in general, I think are a great foundation for business leaders.
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Um and uh my sport in particular was golf.
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And golf, you know, some people may look at that and be like, well, that's not the most adrenaline-driven sport.
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And um, I would beg to differ a little bit because you know, if you if you compare it to a hockey, a soccer, a team sport, um, I actually think sports like golf and tennis that are individual sports have greater stakes because the margin for error is well, there is no margin for error.
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You're the only person that can actually execute the shot.
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Um, it's un you're unable to hide on a field or a rink um where there's 10 other you know players around you per se, right?
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So for me, golf was my upbringing.
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That was my competitive sport.
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So just at a young age of having you know an audience watch you or to have to make a four-foot putt, and then you miss and you feel that letdown and you feel that stress, and then having to stand on a T in front of you know a hundred people and hit a shot, um, there's just there's there's just no halfing it, right?
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You have to execute the shot, and whether your hands are shaking and your knees are about to class, you have to do it.
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And in the business world, it's kind of the same, right?
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When you have um a group of investors that have a very big deal on the line and they need to find an operator to to pull the trigger on that, um you can't hide behind anything, right?
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You have to execute that, and it kind of brings me back to my my golfing days in in some capacity.
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Yeah, interesting.
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Uh, what do you think is the hardest club that most people struggle with?
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Club is in golf club.
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Uh-huh.
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Uh the putter, probably.
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Um, yeah, just because the again, the margin for error and the visibility of misses is easy to determine, right?
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Um, like if you were to ask me, Travis, what shot would you want to pull off in front of a hundred thousand people right now?
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It'd probably be a full swing eight-iron or full swing driver or something like that, just because the misses are a little bit easier to hide.
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Um, but I would not want to hit a four-foot putt in front of an audience um just because there's only two outcomes.
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You you make it or you miss it.
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Right, right, right.
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Well, I I love the way you you kind of describe, you know, you gave me a new view on on golf.
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One of the guys on our team, Scott, he he's a scratch golfer and and he you know he's really good at playing.
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He was uh you me, you and him are very similar in the way we think and and show up.
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Um I think people who are in the world of deal making have at least on this side of the coin, have uh a certain uh personality or a certain lean or bent or wiring, whatever you want to call it.
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Um when you're looking for talent for different roles, maybe within the PE group, maybe operator for a PE company, or maybe something else.
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Like where does personality or wiring or th these kind of things show up for you?
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Yeah.
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It's tricky, you know, because confidence can sometimes also um kind of hide the lack of skill set too, right?
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Um people often like being around people that are like them or make them feel good, right?
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And that's the charisma that you you want in a room, but you also don't want it to be so distracting that you can't figure out whether or not they're competent to actually execute the job behind the scenes, right?
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Um so so I think for for us where it shows up is it kind of goes back to some really simple measuring tactics we have when we're assessing talent, right?
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Um it's consistency, right?
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Um are they consistent with their storytelling?
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Are they consistent with how they show up with everyone?
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Are they just consistently impressive with you?
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But then when they meet your team, your team's like, you know, this is totally not the person you told us about.
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Um so there's a lot of different ways to measure consistency, right?
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There's a great recruiting um uh tactic called top grading.
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Uh, and it and it's uh there's a book on it that uh many people would have read um called top grading.
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And um that the whole format behind that is pretty much interviewing someone for a very long period of time asking almost the same question in many, many different ways.
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And it's exhausting for the person sitting on the other side of the table, and frankly, sometimes for everyone involved, um, but it has a science behind it, right?
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And it's how many inconsistencies can you kind of detect at, if any, and then double down on the whys, right?
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Um so I say that's where it shows up, but then it's also just showing up in the standpoint of showing up, right?
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Is the person that you're meeting taking that meeting as seriously as you would hope them to, right?
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Are they showing up in a collared shirt?
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Are they showing up on time?
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Are they looking at their watch 30 minutes in because they you feel that they have somewhere more important to be, right?
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And you know, I've assessed executive leaders monthly for 10 plus years now, and there's just a really great common denominator from people on how they show up and how they don't.
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And um some of the stuff is very simple, man.
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Like it's not complicated, but uh you'd be surprised at how many people can mess it up.
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Oh, for sure, man.
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Uh, this is so fun.
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I love having this conversation around around people.
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I love people.
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Now, just to admit something to you and to the audience, right?
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You talk about showing up.
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I've got a sports coat on, a white press collar shirt, but I'm I'm in the studio and I'm only recording and waist up.
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I'm wearing shorts and flip-flops.
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And I say this and I share this with you here and with the audience.
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But I think that sometimes people show up, like in the not their best, putting their best foot forward.
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Where they might be a great talent, they might have the skill sets, but for some reason they didn't show up fully dressed or fully present.
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How do you make sure that your initial gut instinct on someone or gut, you know, like when you see someone, you're like, ooh, how do you how do you change your mind later on?
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Because I'm sure we've all been wrong with the gun instinct of the first impression.
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Uh 100%.
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And and that's my point going back to you don't want that charisma to overtake the actual competency skills that you have to get to, right?
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Um the the first impression is a non-negotiable, because in my opinion, you only get one shot at a first impression, right?
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There's no second attempt at that.
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So if you mess that up, it's very hard to come back from that.
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And uh, you know, I'll give you a prime example.
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I had a breakfast meeting um, you know, earlier uh last week with with a prospect that we were looking at, and um I I just couldn't get over the the first two-minute show-up, the handshake, the lack of eye contact, the kind of awkwardness of walking in the room.
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I just it was on my mind the whole entire breakfast, and I couldn't get past it, right?
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So you have to be mindful that that first impression is so crucial.
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Now, that's almost unfair in some capacity because that individual could have been distracted, and that's just a a two-minute assessment based on a potential 10-year partnership that we're looking at, right?
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So you can't just base those, um, you can't base the the um the ultimate answer on that individual off of a poor handshake slash awkward first interaction.
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Um, but it's kind of important, right?
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Because if you think about if that person's gonna go out and represent your firm and that's how they greet a client, that could be a monstrous deal for the organization, and you're picking up on that, they probably will too, right?
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And um there's there's just some some little things that that go a long way.
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So to answer your question, one of my things that I really love doing, Josh, is and and it's taken me a long time to get there because I get excited when I meet people that are really great, is I go silent on them for a little bit.
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And I hate it, I hate to admit that, um, and then I just let my secret out a little bit.
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But um, and I'm talking about when I particularly look to bring on people from my own firm.
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Um and the reason I do that is in our line of business and consulting, you have to have a self-starter mindset, you have to be a mover and a shaker.
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Clients will not call you, you have to call clients.
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So if they're not calling me and they're not on top of me asking for an update, um that is just a really big red flag, right?
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And um it's tough because I give all the love in person and it's impossible for me to hold that back.
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And then when I leave, I'm like, oh my God, I want to text them first, I want to email them, I'm fired up about this, but then I just I I shut it down.
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And honestly, I've probably lost, I would say, five really great people this quarter who I was really excited about just because of the lack of enthusiasm I saw the week after or the second week after, right?
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Um, and uh and those are the little, you know, there's always a little few tricks that everyone has, but that's one of mine of how you kind of get beyond the enthusiasm that was shared in person and see if there's actually some some grip behind the the the fresh press t-shirt or the the collared shirt, right?
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Yeah, I I think I think that's great because uh that shows how they're gonna how they show up with you shows how they're gonna show up for the clients or the groups.
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Now there's in these kind of organizations, P family office, whatever there's there's people who interact with people all day long, especially if they're they're drivers of revenue, they're drivers of opportunity, they're sales.
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There's behind the scenes people, right?
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You have you know more maybe CFO or controllers or or operational driven.
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Like how how does your how does your search typically go in in terms of those different types of individuals?
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One might be Ford-facing, they need to be the rainmaker versus operationally driven.
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It's tough, you know, and the reason it's tough is because it it's hard to look past the fact that you want everyone to be consistent in terms of how they show up, right?
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And um we've we've hired roles from you know externally for our organizations, from CFOs to CEOs, to CROs to board members to marketing executives, I mean, you name it.
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And the reality is you sometimes have to get out of your own way, and we are our own worst own enemy sometimes of um, well, geez, that person's not the person I really would want to go out for a drink with.
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Um, but it's like, well, that doesn't actually matter, right?
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Their job is to do XYZ, which has no correlation with taking clients out for a drink or going out for dinner, right?
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And you really have to get into the weeds of what are they being hired to accomplish.
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And and frankly, that's probably the biggest hurdle in hiring is like where where do people make the biggest mistake?
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It's well, kind of measuring against the wrong criteria or setting up the wrong expectations of a job that they're not actually being hired to do, right?
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So um it is difficult.
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My answer to that, though, is to get candidates, get prospects in different environments throughout the interview process, right?
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Um, a boardroom's fine for a meet and greet, but I I really don't love boardroom meetings.
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I just find that the environment is a little bit stale, it's a little bit unnatural, it's not authentic.
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Um, go to a restaurant, go to a loud place where you're gonna see people interact with all sorts of different people and weird, chaotic environments, go for a walk.
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Um, and uh you just kind of get to see people in their natural habitat and you get to kind of poke holes in different things that will be relevant for what they're being hired for, but not in a scripted boardroom way where everyone's suited up and it's a quiet room and the clock's ticking, and you know, that that's not always the real life scenario.
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Yeah, I love that is is letting people see real life scenario observing.
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You observe a lot, right?
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Were you were you like that, you know, growing up in in in school where you were very observant of people and you were constantly measuring things and like in your in your brain like doing an analysis on individuals?
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Um on the people side, yes, but not so much like an analytical thinking brain by any means.
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Um but uh in terms of I was just always a people person.
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Um and I would say had like a good stomach pulse on on people, but articulating it not always perfect, right?
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Like it's sometimes hard to put words into how you feel, but um yeah, I would say there's always been some sort of uh consistent trend on that.
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Yeah.
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I'm going through a uh program with my church and it's identifying some things in my life that I need to improve upon, right?
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So I'm a people person too.
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With that, there's the the good, the bad, and the ugly side of it.
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The ugly side of being a people person is you can tend to be a people pleaser, or you can you know like hold on to someone for too long, or you can say yes to someone because you want to and you you you feel like you need to.
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So in your role where you have to say no probably 99% of the time to people, how do you overcome that?
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You said it was even hard for you to ghost them for a little bit, but that's a test of of seeing if they have what it takes to do the job.
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How do you balance that in your life?
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Or maybe you don't even struggle with that at all.
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Yeah.
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And to be clear, I don't ghost for too long.
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I mean, if they're following up, they're getting an answer because that's what I want to see.
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Yeah.
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But I won't chase, I won't chase them.
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I won't chase them.
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Um it's um you're you're you're completely correct when you assume that we say no far more than we say yes, just given the nature of what we do, right?
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So you have to give a lot more bad news than you have to give good news, which is by you know, I by by no uh measure the the best part of the job, right?
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Like that's just the reality.
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Um if there's something that you know I would kind of pull from this answer and be really direct on is how I approach those, which is be direct, right?
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Don't beat around the bush.
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No one likes the fuzzy answer of not getting the truth.
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Um when you have bad news to give, give it within the first 30 seconds of that meeting or that call.
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Don't wait 10 minutes after you're done talking about the kids, the dogs, the school, the the life, and the holiday, right?